~ Dread is discombobulation unto opportunity – opportunity that looks down into
its own plausibility. In this unsteadiness opportunity surrenders. ~
An individual gets up as he normally does, utilizes the washroom and
brushes his teeth as he generally does, and goes to the kitchen for his typical bowl of Slurpy O’s grain. Be that as it may, his new maid has looked for him the day preceding and unfit to discover Slurpy O’s has conveyed to his pantry four distinct brands of oats and rices, trusting one will fulfill him until the point when she can locate his standard thing. When he reaches to open the bureau and see the choices of ….., he stops, stuck for thought, stuck for settling on a choice. He completely can’t fold his mind over this early morning decision thus he eats nothing.  This is, in little part, what existentialism is.
A couple of entryways down, a man manages another problem. Six
months back he had capitulated to an offer made by a main ISP to agree to accept 45 days of free program and email benefit. He had entered his Visa number on the very beginning, realizing that however it was pushed to the limit, when multi month and a half had passed he would have been paid and would then have the capacity to satisfy as far as possible, so the ISP could charge the $30.00 every month from subsequently in. Be that as it may, on day thirteen, he finds that the ISP has solidified his record. When he discovers why- – in light of the fact that they endeavored to charge his card and the card denied them charging – he ends up furious that the organization has lied/cheated him by giving him just 13 days free, and after that has stopped his vocation (he works on the web) when neglecting to effectively charge him 32 days rashly.
He instantly composes a letter to ISP Godzilla, requesting it
drop his enrollment, a letter he faxes that equivalent day. ISP
Godzilla composes back, saying this isn’t the way
retraction works, and would he please call 1-800-XXX-XXXX. He calls and first gets put on hold, a position that for five
minutes keeps him bolted to a circled chronicle of a saccharine
voice saying, “On the off chance that you require additionally help with your PC repair needs, go to http://www.oursite.com.” When he gets a human he gets a man who educates him that the organization “can’t discover” him in their records. In the meantime, he likewise has a voice-mail given by a similar organization. When he dials the command post to recover his messages and punches in his secret phrase, a mechanical reaction lets him know there is no such record. The messages are there, as his marker indicates 5, at that point 7, at that point 12 approaching messages…which he can’t get to. The unreturned calls bring about losing three customers, two companions, and a life partner – all gathering he has closed them out.
Inside the following couple of months he gets three debilitating bills
from Godzilla, which request installment that in the event that he doesn’t pay will result in end of his record. At that point the bills are swung over to an antagonistic accumulation organization, charges which touch base with whatever remains of his mail- – which likewise contains new CDs for start-up administration with a similar organization. On the CDs are the words “Return to Godzilla and we will allow you 45 days free online access!” This, as well, is existentialism.
What’s more, in another anywhotown on another piece of this plunging and
weak globe, a man is hijacked. She is taken to the
captor’s home, tied up, and utilized for the man’s pleasure. Each
day for about fourteen days, she is made to submit, permitted to rise just to bathe, prepare, and eat, and is then fixing back to the bed to remain while the man heads out to work at a noteworthy everycorporation
On day fifteen, the man leaves for work and the lady does all
she can to free herself. She at long last gets free and leaves the
house to shop, eat, drink bistro, and sit in the recreation center sustaining the
flying creatures. Following a couple of hours, the lady comes back to the house, puts
herself back in the shackles and sits tight for him to return. 
This is likewise existentialism.
In a similar regard, however, existentialism includes substantially more.
The umbrella worry of this social, agnostic, as well as mystical
philosophical development holds that the existential human, the
single individual, experience a presence that is one made out of
pith just when/if/after he/she characterizes him/herself- – that the
person’s presence goes before his/her quintessence.  And the
principles of existentialism (however in fact difficult to
seclude and exemplify in a couple of pages) comprise of the
understanding that one has opportunity since one is nothing; that
one must apply this opportunity by tolerating the ethical duty of unrestrained choice and by utilizing this through and through freedom to pick (in compliance with common decency); that in light of the fact that each is a person with individual ways to deal with presence, life is just emotional; and that life- – even and particularly to the normal human- – is nonsensical, is foolish.
It is on the grounds that existentialism all in all rationality is really an arrangement of methods of insight that don’t fit into slick, calm classifications however rather are reflexive, multi-dimensional, here and there shouting, different occasions differentiating and clashing
possibilities – incongruities and absurdities- – that cover and frequently
impact like the parts of an irregularity of a fluke hybridized onion
that I address here just a single essential piece of the entirety.
It is on account of existentialism is crazy in its exceptionally comprehension of the preposterous (and brings up its very own preposterousness), is dumbfounding in its extremely comprehension of oddity (and pronounces its own confusing nature) that I endeavor to recognize one single nature of presence. It is a direct result of such a segment – the attributes (or side effects) of the possibilities as they are and as they lead definitely to give up – that I compose.
What’s more, it is with the majority of the regard one can have for the
onion skins and layers started by Hegel and Heidegger, or first reared by Descartes, or created by Sartre, de Beauvoir,
Kierkegaard, and Nietzsche, or gone up against and piece-by-piece
analyzed by Camus, Dostoyevsky, and Kafka that I write…again, to express comprehension of one (emotional) human experience, and not to talk in any scholarly person, sweeping path to a
authoritative discourse of each and every cell of the most significant
of methods of insight.
To start with, presence. Presence first. Presence goes before pith.
A human is first, nothing. A human makes him/herself something
by characterizing him/herself. What’s more, he/she does this by tolerating
duty regarding self, which he/she does by acting, by
picking. What happens to this duty regarding the
existentialist is apprehension, a joined and disguised uneasiness,
fear, melancholy, aching, want, blame, and [what Kierkegaard characterized as] fear – as a dread of this opportunity to make of oneself what one will. Add to this anxiety the idea that one is likewise in charge of mankind and must act, must pick, and a one is in a sort of living passing misery – one is in depression.
Of misery’s structures – to not be aware of having a self, the
reluctance to be possess self to dispose of self and imbalanced
identifying with another, and to will to be one’s own self - – one
incomprehensibly expedites more misery out of the hopelessness
itself. That is, out of hopelessness one may be enticed to stay away from
obligation. In any case, to maintain a strategic distance from is to be in what Sartre called
“mauvaise foi,” or dishonesty …which prompts additionally give up.
We can’t know this, any more than we can know our own future
self/our epoché, any more than we can control our very own self,
future, or fate. This adds to the cognizant give up all hope of the existentialist, one that contains, even the lose faith in regards to trust.
We can’t control another, either, in our human drive to be
know/think self, or, in other words exertion to be God (or what Nietzsche would keep up we could be and are: Der Ubermunsch, The Overman/Superman). The inconceivability of this makes a despondency that parallels the fear of knowing we can’t know our own beingness- – in light of the fact that such beingness is just conspicuous/determinable by its relation(ship) to other existing creatures. As Hegel composed (or de-coded)it, we are in a consistent rationalization of self and other. A human can’t exist except if he/she exists against the presence of another.
The best known similarity is that of the Master/slave, however
to preclude artifact in support from claiming advancement, how about we return to the
lady in the open model who liberated herself, just to re-shackle
herself once more.
Sooner or later, she (deliberately or unwittingly) recognizes
herself as compliant, or masochist, who does not exist as a
masochist except if there is a perverted person to draw out the masochistic
nature of her. When she is free, at that point, she is not any more
“masochist,” and accordingly no longer anything. She doesn’t
exist. She needs the other to “name” her, to give her
existence…or beingness. This thought of oneself being dependent upon the other for importance is one Sartre distinctly remarked on from the place of his own sadness, saying, “The other is the drainhole of my reality.”
Further, however we share this interdependency, this argumentative
demandingness, we extremely just offer one all inclusive: that we are
in a general sense free. On the other hand, however existentialism is
now and then thought about a social reasoning, it evades the
terminology as it individualizes us, stripping us of any
all inclusive personality. We are, in each sense, alone in our
presence. As current radical specialist R.D. Laing says, “I
can’t encounter your experience,”  emblematizing the exact
distance of the human. Consequently, the depression as it reemerges in amazingly, one more multi-layered measurement.
Furthermore, since presence is abstract – since the main
which means/substance is what we connect, what we make or
convey to the world- – correspondence, likewise, is emotional. By the
extremely demonstration of conveying, one is joining emotional significance or abstract character to that correspondence. So by forcing
which means outwardly, one victimizes the outside of the capacity to
assimilate one, which saps one to the point of death.
This takes us back to the disguise of estrangement and the dread and in the meantime t